Imagine being 18, on your own, with no parents and no one to guide you about what to do with your future.
While most kids grow up with parents who encourage them to pursue their dreams to become doctors, lawyers, accountants or a host of other professions, I grew up in a dysfunctional home where you couldn’t look that far ahead.
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